No date? No problem! These local stars prove that being single is okay and taking your time to find the right one is actually a healthy choice.
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Love can be a beautiful journey, but it can also be a tricky and tough road to navigate, oftentimes filled with both joy and heartbreak. Yet amidst the whirlwind of romantic entanglements, there are those who have found solace and contentment in their singlehood. In the glamorous world of Filipino showbiz, which is sometimes driven by who the hottest love teams are, there are inspiring celebrities who have chosen to celebrate their independence, reminding us that being single can be a time of personal growth, empowerment, and self-love. From pursuing their passions to prioritizing their well-being, these Filipino stars will not only uplift your spirits, but also make you feel good about embracing your own single blessedness.
Alden Richards
Like other celebrities in the spotlight, Alden Richards knows all too well about the pressures of being in romantic relationships. In a recent interview with Ogie Diaz, Asia’s Multimedia Star reiterates that he’s single and that he’s not in a rush to be in a relationship, although he adds that he ultimately has plans to get married and have a family in the future.
And if you’re one of those people who feel the fear of being left out while being single, Alden has a piece of advice: “Darating din iyan, ‘wag ka mag-alala.” The Pambansang Bae adds, “Invest in yourself first. Love yourself first. There’s always a perfect time for [finding the one].”
Maxene Magalona
If there’s somebody who is admirably in touch with their single blessedness, it’s gotta be Filipina actress Maxene Magalona. In a series of encouraging Instagram posts, Maxene has stressed the benefits of singlehood and how being alone is not necessarily being lonely.
“Perks of being single and childless: You have full control of your schedule. You can literally do anything you want on any day at whatever time,” she says in an IG post. In another musing, Maxine implores everyone to not be caged in a label. “Whether you’re single, taken, married, divorced or widowed—it doesn’t really matter. Your relationship status doesn’t define you.” We stan a true self-love warrior.
Jane De Leon
Jane de Leon was thrust to nationwide attention when she took flight as the famous local superheroine, Darna, in ABS-CBN’s Mars Ravelo’s Darna that ended earlier this year. And among the things about her that were subjected to public scrutiny was her love life.
Jane admits that she has had her heart broken “many times” before, and that’s one of the reasons why romantic pursuits have taken the backseat in her life for the meantime. She’s also her family’s breadwinner and shares in an interview that she’s now focused on her flourishing career. And we can all learn from Jane when she says she’s also learning to love herself first before committing in a relationship. “Paano mo mamahalin ‘yung ibang tao kung hindi mo mahal sarili mo?”
Janella Salvador
From Darna to Valentina, Janella Salvador is another powerful example of someone thriving in singlehood. Janella shares in an interview that if there are some similarities between her and her Valentina alter-ego, Regina, it’s her determination to fight for what’s right. And asked about the last thing she fought for, the singer-actress proudly answers being a single mom to his son, Jude.
“Talagang nilalaban ko [being a single mom],” Janella emphasizes. “At the end of the day, alam kong kaya ko naman siya. As much as I love the people around me who are always there to help me, I always want to know na kaya kong gawin. I don’t want it to sound bad kasi, pero I can rely on myself na hindi ko kailangang humingi ng tulong sa iba.” A strong and single wonder woman, indeed.
Moira dela Torre
Whether it’s about love, betrayal, heartbreak, redemption, there’s no denying how Moira dela Torre became the symbol of heart-ripping and mending anthems throughout the years. And Moira knows it, the complicated and harsh nature of love, having experienced all of it.
But being single has not put Moira down. In fact, unfazed by the controversies, she took it in stride and welcomed a new era that is inspiring and, well, record-breaking. Not only did she give us a new look, she also had her first world tour where she held sold-out concerts here and abroad and even made history in Canada. Plus, there are her new anthems to get senti to. Moira’s giving us some single life goals to aspire to.
Sharlene San Pedro
Gamer, singer-songwriter, and actress Sharlene San Pedro also makes for a healthy example dealing with her singlehood. Even if celebrities are almost always expected to be an open book, Sharlene wants to keep her love life private as much as possible because she doesn’t want the showbiz world to affect that very personal matter.
In another interview, the Ten Little Mistresses star shares how she wants her future partner and relationship to be low-key yet truthful. “‘Di naman kailangan i-public lahat ng mga mangyayari sa buhay nyong dalawa,” Sharlene says. “Maganda na for memories lang, kayong dalawa.”
David Licauco
Yes, even the Pambansang Ginoo himself, David Licauco, is still single right now. But it’s not for long as it seems, because David reveals that he is already preparing to eventually settle down in the future. “I see myself probably getting married in five years,” the actor-businessman says. “That’s why I’m working hard for the future.” That’s definitely some green flag energy from someone who has played a character once called the Pambansang Red Flag.
BONUS: Sandara Park
You would think that a K-pop superstar like Sandara Park has it easy in the love department. But it’s the very industry that’s made the former 2NE1 member and the Pinoy-at-heart to choose to embrace her single life instead. In the web show, No Back Tak Jae-hoon, Dara reveals the reason behind this choice.
Asked if she hates men, she reasons with conviction: “It’s not like that. I want to stay single. There are too many people around me who have experienced failed marriages.” Just like Dara, may we all realize that there’s nothing wrong with being single, especially if it means doing away with toxic relationships.
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